This poem is about euphemisms; or, a particular euphemism. I don?t think I use them that much when talking about death ? I feel quite comfortable saying ?my daughter died? or ?the death of my daughter?, and this is about one particular day when I did use this particular euphemism; but as soon as I heard myself say it, I was struck by how inadequate it was.

Lost

Walking with my baby in the park and slowing for someone
I hadn’t seen in years, I heard myself interrupting coos
to say, You know I lost my first child, don’t you? 

As if there were a possibility she might turn up again,
with my glove or best pen.  That a sweep of the sofa
might reward me her hand, then body, pulled from the gap

between cushions. As if all I did was lose sight of her.
That an anxious scan of sand could bring her into focus,
squat and peering at shells. As if I could swear

I had hold of her earlier, that a frantic spill of my bag
would bear lip gloss, chewing gum, keys and I’d be
unable to explain, apologising for my dreadful mistake.

As if one day, I could run from my house, screaming ‘Found!’
Lift her for the whole road to see, shouting ‘Here she is! Here she is! She is here!’

 

 

from Her Birth (Carcanet/Northern House, 2013), ? Rebecca Goss 2013, used by permission of the author and the publisher

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